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Randy, Aunt Lorene and Kathy - August 2, 2025 |
It took some of them awhile to realize that the open window was on Randy's side - not mine.
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Randy, Aunt Lorene and Kathy - August 2, 2025 |
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Randy in 1967, a 5th grader and his first year in Stafford County 4-H with his first 4-H beef project. |
4-H is "very fun." Just look at any beginning 4-Her's permanent record book.
This year is my first year in 4-H. I have enjoyed it very much. Going to the 4-H things has been very fun. I really enjoyed the refreshments very much. I am looking forward very much to next year in 4-H. This year, I have enjoyed 4-H camp and have got lots of ribbons.
My first 4-H story was also written in 1967, as a fourth grader. (The
photo at the left was the one attached to my 4-H permanent record.) My
story was longer. (There's a big surprise, right?) I used the word "fun"
six times to describe my song leading job, picking out ingredients for
my Snacks and Little Lunches project, 4-H Sunday and assorted other 4-H
events. I also "enjoyed" things twice and "liked" 4-H another time or
two. A glance at Jill's and Brent's record books mirrored our family's
outlook that 4-H is "fun" and very likeable.
4-Hers - and their parents - have been "liking" the youth program for
more than 100 years, long before there was a "like" button on Facebook
pages. On Saturday, we went to the Shawnee County Fair in Topeka to see Kinley's and Brooke's 4-H projects. Kinley and Brooke come from a long line of 4-Hers, including their maternal great-grandparents and their paternal great-grandmother (Bonnie Ladd).
Kinley's Snickerdoodle Cake |
Brooke's Strawberry Cake |
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Photo credit (and working credit, too) to Christy Ladd |
However, the judge at the Stafford County Fair last week had a different one he/she preferred. (I'm going to go with "they" because I don't know whether they were male or female). I got a white - or third in the class - with the photo of the bright kayaks.
But it does demonstrate how "judging" and "subjective" should be in the same sentence. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It's never more true than when you enter photos in a county fair.
As always, I entered a bunch of photos in the open class division of the Stafford County Fair last week. I've admitted here before: It's not a money-making proposition. In fact, I'm confident I lose money by the time I pay for enlargements and mat boards. (Not that he ever complains, but I tell Randy that my hobby is cheaper than his hobby, so I still come out ahead).
I felt like I had fewer to choose from this year. But, as I analyzed that feeling, I came to the conclusion that I usually feel that way. Admittedly, I have fewer photos for the "agriculture" category. But our travels gave me more "scenic" and "nature" photos than I could use.
This blue ribbon winner was from Crystal Bridges in Bentonville, Ark.
This black-and-white print was also from Two Medicine Lake, showing the fast-moving, low clouds that were the backdrop for our morning there. It, too, got a blue.So did this photo I took of the Big Boy steam locomotive during its stop in Salina last fall.
I got a blue on the book I made for Randy after our Eureka Springs/Bentonville trip:
And I got second place on my National Parks book. (Again, I would have flipped the ribbons, but what do I know?)
As I've said many times before, I don't enter at the fair for the
ribbons or the premium money. But
entering in the fair helps keep this rural American tradition alive.
Sure, it's fun to see how your artistic eye stacks up against your
neighbors. But it's even better to have a place to wander around and
reconnect with people from across the county who you don't see on a
weekly basis. You can't beat that! I've been doing that since I was a 4-Her in Pratt County several decades ago.
Two of the photos I really liked didn't get a ribbon at all. I should learn my lesson: My bird photos and sunrise/sunset photos - or, I guess, Northern Lights ones - never fare well.
I know how much time and effort - and unusable clicks of the camera - went into getting this shot of our backyard visitor. And it's not every day that you can see the Northern Lights without leaving home.I wasn't the only photographer in the family this year. Kinley will find out what color ribbons she'll get on her 4-H photography this week at the Shawnee County Fair in Topeka. We've worked together on that project for the past three years, but this year, she didn't need much help. I brought the needed supplies to Topeka to get the photos mounted, but she took the photos and mounted them herself. I guess that's the goal as a mentor: You're supposed to work yourself out of a job.